Get proper couples counseling to save your marriage

I and my girlfriend and I were facing too much trouble before our engagement.  We know we wouldn’t marry each other if we didn’t get some couples counseling. I knew she hated the idea, but I felt it was vital, and this resistance further strained our relationship. 

By the way, this is quite normal for a person to not to want to counsel and I’ll tell you the reason behind it. The reason behind the resistance is that the person knows they have to discuss about very private problems and that is difficult. This is a reason to worry about when you require someone outside of your closed ones to intervene. 

If you think that you don’t need any assistance from a therapist and you can handle any issues between yourselves, then you may want to ask yourself why you are reading this post in the first place. It is because you require assistance with your situation and you are looking for assistance.

Please never feel there is anything wrong with you. It is just for understanding the situation, you require assistance. Instead, give yourself a pat on your back for being truthful with the scenario and know that there are many others out there facing the same problems. And there is ample assistance available also in the form of family counseling. 

Ii is my suggestion to consult a counsellor for your relationship related problems, as they can provide you a strong motivation to keep both of you together.  According to Bible, God is against divorce and separation. The counsellor may try to assist both of you to realize your purpose for being together and provide good guidance and realistic ways to make your bitter situation into a sweet one. Do it now and get a certified person to assist you on the road to heal your relationship. Why not if you don’t have anything to lose?